Thursday, 25 April 2013

Hanuma Kalyanam


Interesting facts on Sri Hanuman’s education and Marriage

The boons granted by the gods made Hanuman invincible. The monkey child became uncontrollable. He became very mischievous. His pranks irritated many. He did not spare the sages even. He would pounce on them and tear their dress. He would throw fruit and leaves, perched atop trees. They bore with him patiently being aware of his future. One day a sage was very much disturbed by Hanumantha. The sage went into a rage and cursed Hanumantha: “ May you forget your strength with which you have caused us so much of pain”. The curse changed the life of Hanuman altogether. He became very calm and inert. The change pained the sages. They altered the curse on him. They blessed him thus: “If any one reminds you of your strength, you would recognize your strength and abilities and succeed”.

This boon chastened Hanumantha. He became a well-behaved child and an epitome of virtuousness.

Hanuman was growing older. His mother told him: “Son! It is time to get educated. There is no better teacher than Surya, the Sun god, who dispels all darkness. Go to him and gain knowledge.”

Even though he was omnipotent, Hanuman obeyed his mother. He reached the Surya Mandala and humbly prayed the Sun god: “O! Surya Deva, I want to learn Vedas, Vedangas, and Upangas from you. Please teach me.” Surya replied: “O! Boy of Anjana, I am always on the move, as ordained by Almighty, how can I teach you? ”

Hanuman was angered. He blocked the path of Surya. Surya pacified Hanuman. He said: “I have no objection to teach you. But you have to find a way to learn”.

Hanuman stood facing the sun and started walking backwards. Surya was moving forward and was teaching Hanuman. Lord Siva is said to know all and Hanuman, who is Lord Siva’s incarnation, proved to be one who knows all as well. With in a week of his education, he astonished Surya. Surya praised Hanuman. Hanuman wanted to continue his education. Instead of walking backward, he put one foot on the rising hill and the other one on the setting hill to face the Sun god. Hanuman’s interest and devotion pleased the Sun god. Surya taught all that is to be taught to Hanuman.

Surya was married to Sanjana, a daughter of Viswakarma. Sanjana was devoted wife but was unable to bear the heat emanating from the Sun’s rays. She was suffering with anguish. Her mother noticed the daughter’s plight and sought to know as to what the problem was. Sanjana explained her problem to her mother. Her mother in turn told Viswakarma of Sanjana’s problem. Viswakarma told Surya that he would polish off some of the luminescence of Surya. Surya agreed. Viswakarma was able to polish off some luminescence of his son-in-law. The luminescence thus separated took the form of young woman. Her beauty and grace astonished even gods. Indra wanted to know as to who would marry that shinning brilliant young women. Brahma thought for a while and replied: “Hanuman who is essence of Lord Siva’s fiery power will marry the young woman. Since Hanuman tried to grab the ever glowing Sun god, he alone can bear this glowing young woman”.

Surya remembered Brahma’s utterance. By than Hanuman’s education was complete. He was ready to graduate. He bowed to Lord Surya and said: “O! My divine teacher! Thanks to you I am educated now. I would like to take your leave now. I would like to offer you an appropriate fee as Guru Dakshina. Kindly order me”.

Surya immediately replied: “O Hanuman, you are the incarnation of Lord Siva who bore the poisonous HAALAAHALA to save the universe when the ocean was churned. You are also son of Agni, the fire god. Viswakarma separated a part of my luminescence and the world is unable to bear it. You are the only one who can bear it. So I want to offer you my daughter Suvarchala formed from my ‘VARCHAS’ (luminescence), in marriage. Marry my daughter. Since husband is the one who is to bear, you also bear my ‘Suvarchas’ by marrying Suvarchala. Your marrying her shall be my Guru Dakshina”.

Hanuman listened to his teacher and replied politely: “O Lord! I have decided to follow Brahmacharya through out my life. How can I marry?” Surya replied: “O Hanuman, this Suvarchala is a divine one, Ayonija. She would be a devoted wife. I am giving you the boon that you would still be a Brahmachari even after marriage. You would continue to be a Prajapatya Brahmachari. Your marriage is only for the welfare of the Universe and it would not affect your chosen course of celibacy. You were a born Brahmachari with a Yajnopavita (Sacred thread). Brahmacharya will be your eternal pursuit. Since you are going to be a Brahma in future, Suvarchala will then occupy the place of Vani”.

Hanuman obeyed his preceptor’s advice. Surya presented Suvarchala to Hanuman. It is stated in PARASARA SAMHITA, that Surya offered his daughter Suvarchala in marriage on JYESTHA SUDDHA DASAMI. It was a Wednesday under the star UTTARA. Those who respect tradition, even to this day, observe “HANUMAT KALYANAM” (Hanuman’s Marriage) on JYESTHA SUDDHA DASAMI day.

Wednesday, 17 April 2013

Difficulties-doesn't last longer Only the one who faced it lasts longer

A tap on a shoulder, A hug from  dad, A help from a friend, The food by Mom , A good words from a writer--  No stuff on this earth can ever never replace these things.Yesterday i found a article during surfing.This really made to post it here in my blog...Hope u people like this inspiring article.

             No person in this world is immune to adversity. It may hit upon any time. But how a person reacts to it is all that matters. Some people have the guts to fight with it and emerge out triumphant. But some become pessimistic and bitter with life while others come to terms with it. When I remember my childhood days I admire my cousin who was disabled due to an accident. After taking treatment from many specialists still she was unable to walk which made her parents shed tears of blood. But her will power was so strong that she boldly underwent the painfully slow process of rehabilitation.
              Many times she tried and many more times she fell down. But still she was determined to win all over again. The result was that not only she had won prizes in all categories in her school level, she could dive from the highest diving- board at the swimming pool, something none of her sibling could do. She is now happily married with two children and is also a highly successful gynecologist.

              Problems, pain and discomfort which come in life are not meant for frightening us. These are the very things which we need to strengthen ourselves. It would be better if instead of opposing them we do some introspection and learn the required lesson from the crisis.
              The difficulty should be exploited to such an extent that it turns out to be a blessing. In the apparently looking adverse predicament is hidden the infinite mercy of God. That is why enlightened persons of the world have always thanked God in their worst setbacks. Such people never question God but simply flow with His plans thus accepting everything.
              Nobody in this world is immune to suffering. A problem-free life is a delusion. Happiness cannot be defined when there is mere absence of problems but the ability to solve them. Life is just like a coin which has two sides, namely, joy and sorrow. No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time. Storms always give way to the sun; winter always paves the path into spring time.
              Hence, it is rightly said, “Tough times never last but tough people do”.  Some inspiring stories are those of Abraham Lincoln, Walt Disney, Helen Keller, and Thomas Edison who have bravely defeated major obstacles to achieve their aims.
              We may certainly not be able to control our destiny but we can definitely suit our attitude towards it. The testing times may make us tender or tough, better or bitter as everything depends upon our perception.
As both rain and sunshine are needed to make a rainbow, both joy and sorrow jointly make our life truly colorful  Huge amounts of positivity, hope and courage can help a person to sail through the darkest phases of his life. After all it is the spirit to fight that matters than a conquest or failure.